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Don’t Be “Normal” In 2025

Dr Stephen Wangen
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December 31, 2024

🧠 Normal Is Not Healthy

Has your doctor ever told you that you’re “normal”… maybe even “healthy”?

Here’s the uncomfortable truth: normal is not the same as healthy.

In today’s world, being normal often means being far less healthy than you actually could be. Even “normal” lab results don’t always reflect true wellness. In fact, research suggests that normal may not be something we should be aiming for at all.

So what does real health actually look like?

Let’s break it down.

🔍 What Does It Mean to Be Healthy?

A Mayo Clinic study from 2016 outlined four simple criteria used to define health:

  • Not smoking
  • A body fat percentage below 20% for men and below 30% for women
  • A healthy diet
  • At least 150 minutes of moderate physical activity per week (about 22 minutes per day)

These weren’t extreme requirements.

Body fat was directly measured, and physical activity included realistic movement like brisk walking or even gardening. The diet criteria included fruits, vegetables, whole grains, healthy fats, and lean proteins. Even moderate alcohol intake (1–2 drinks per day) was still allowed.

In other words, this wasn’t a “perfect lifestyle” standard. It was a reasonable baseline for health.

And yet, the results were striking.

📊 How Many People Were Actually Healthy?

Out of 4,745 people studied, only 128 met all four criteria.

That’s less than 3%.

More precisely, about 2.7% of people qualified as healthy.

Think about that for a moment.

Those 128 individuals weren’t “normal.”

They were the exception.

The truly unusual group in the study wasn’t the unhealthy majority—it was the small group that was actually healthy.

Meanwhile, 97% of people did not meet even these relatively modest standards.

⚠️ Why Is Being Healthy So Difficult?

At first glance, these goals don’t seem complicated. But if they were truly easy to achieve, far more people would be living this way.

The reality is that maintaining health today is genuinely difficult.

Every day, you’re surrounded by influences pulling you in the opposite direction:

Advertisements.
Convenience foods.
Social habits.
Work stress.
Family routines.
Constant exposure to unhealthy norms.

Over time, it becomes easier to simply do what everyone else is doing.

But becoming healthy usually requires the opposite approach.

It requires being willing to be different.

And not everyone will understand that choice.

💭 The Pushback You’ll Encounter

When people start changing their habits, they often run into resistance.

Others may support the results—but not the process it took to get there.

You might hear things like:

“Life isn’t worth living if you can’t ______.”

Maybe you’ve heard that before. Maybe you’ve even said it.

The truth is, change can make people uncomfortable—especially when it challenges their own habits or assumptions.

💪 Health Requires Being Exceptional

Health isn’t complicated because the steps are unknown.

It’s difficult because it requires consistency, discipline, and a willingness to act differently than the people around you.

That’s why only a small percentage of people meet basic health standards.

But here’s the important part: it’s still possible.

You can do it.

And you don’t have to do everything at once.

🎯 Start With One Thing

Don’t try to change your entire life overnight.

Pick one thing.

Just one.

Make it realistic. Make it small enough that you can’t easily talk yourself out of it.

Then commit to it.

Because the real challenge usually isn’t the action itself—it’s understanding what’s been stopping you.

Why haven’t you been consistent with exercise?
Why do certain foods keep showing up even when they make you feel worse?
Why has your health been pushed to the side for so long?

Those are deeper questions.

And they matter just as much as the habits themselves.

🌱 Real Change Happens Beneath the Surface

Lasting health isn’t just about behavior change.

It’s about understanding the beliefs, patterns, and emotional habits that drive those behaviors in the first place.

That’s why real change can feel uncomfortable.

You’re not just changing what you do.

You’re changing how you think.

How you see yourself.

And the story you’ve been telling yourself for years.

That’s the deeper work.

And it’s often the work most people avoid—even though it has the biggest payoff.

✅ Striving to Be Exceptional

Society constantly pushes “normal” as the goal.

But normal today often looks like:

Normal fatigue.
Normal weight gain.
Normal inactivity.
Normal preventable illness.

If you want something different, you have to be willing to be different.

Not perfect—just intentional.

Make choices most people aren’t making.

And keep going.

Write your goal down.
Tell someone.
Create accountability.
Then take action.

Because health isn’t something you wait for.

It’s something you build.

😊 One More Thing…

Being healthy is actually rewarding.

Only people who are unhealthy tend to say it isn’t.

More energy feels better.
Better sleep feels better.
Less pain feels better.
More confidence in your body feels better.

Yes, the process takes effort—but the outcome changes your life.

So here’s the real question:

What is one thing you’re going to do differently this year for your health?

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